The Idea - Conversations: Intertwined with your life

Thank you for continuing the conversation. Before you start, take a moment to create an inclusive place, that supports engagement for everyone involved, by setting your conversation standards with each other.

  • Listen to understand

  • Share your truth

  • Expect discomfort

  • Do not try to fix anything

  • Speak from personal experience

  • What is said stays in the room. What is learned leaves the room. 

Prompt One

The female character, Erin, does not ask for consent to have this conversation about race with Dan. In fact, Dan tells her numerous times that he does not want to have the conversation at this time and she ignores his requests.

  • How could Erin have approached the conversation differently?

  • How do you think Dan felt after Erin refused to drop the conversation?

  • When and where is the right time to talk about race and equity?

  • When have you done this kind of harm?

  • When has harm been done to you?

Prompt Two

“The price of privilege is the moral duty to act when one sees another person treated unfairly.” Isabel Wilkerson. The term “ally” is often used in equity work to describe a supportive relationship. The female character, Erin, would describe herself as an ally.

  • Where does Erin fail to be an ally?

  • What does the word “ally” mean to you? 

  • What other words would you use to describe an ally?

  • How have allies shown up for you? 

  • How have allies let you down?

  • If you identify as white, do you hold other white people accountable when people of color are not in the room?

  • Reflect on a time when you or others have failed to act as an ally.

Prompt Three

People who were forced into enslavement, and Indigenous people, had their country of origin, heritage and culture stolen from them. Dan states that the idea of race is wrapped up in everything he experiences in his culture and heritage.

  • How does this align with your experience of culture and heritage?

  • How does this differ with your experience of culture and heritage?

Prompt Four

The character Dan asks for peace and the character Erin rejects it. People of color are often put in the position to offer peace or forgiveness when the harm has been done to them.

  • Why do you think this happens?

Prompt Four

The characters speak about how historically some scientists played a large role in promoting the idea of race.

  • Can science fields ever rectify or put right the shameful history of some scientists and institutions? 

  • If so, how?

  • If not, why not?

What is your statement of hope for the future for racial equality? 

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